WORKSHOP DATE: Sunday September 13th @ 4:00pm EST
How To Create Authentic Vows That Move The Room & Last a Lifetime
Write vows that you cannot wait to say, actually sound like you, and serve as the foundation of your marriage
Sunday September 13th · 4:00pm EST · Live on Zoom · Limited spots
You love them. So why the blank page?
You sit down. You open a doc. You type "I promise…" and immediately delete it because it sounds like a greeting card written by a bank.
You try again after dinner. You try again on the plane. You steal a line from a Pinterest quote and hate yourself a little.
The wedding is getting closer. The blank document is still blank. And the person you love more than anyone in the world deserves more than "you're my best friend and I can't wait to spend forever with you."
It is not that you don't have the feelings. You just don't have the framework.
It's not your fault.
Nobody taught you how to write vows. Not high school English, not the wedding planner, not the internet, not your mother-in-law with the strong opinions on what they should include.
Writing vows isn't about being a good writer. It's about finding the words that are already in your relationship, what you are really promising each other, and how to say something true that outlasts the flowers, the cake, and the photographs.
That's a framework. And frameworks can be learned. That's what this workshop is about.
What's inside
Everything you need to finally get your vows right.
The Live Workshop
60 minutes with Eric and Pippa. Hands on, interactive, and live. Not a lecture you watch alone.
The Three Dimensional Vows Framework
The exact process Eric and Pippa use with every couple they work with. Yours to keep and use forever.
Live Q&A
Ask your specific questions directly during the workshop. Get real answers in real time.
This is where your vows finally come together.
30-day money-back guarantee
Here is what you walk away with.
A 100% clear path to writing vows that sound like you and mean something real
The Three Dimensional Vows framework, the exact process Eric and Pippa use with every couple
A repeatable process you can use to refine and finalize your vows on your own timeline
Confidence that you know exactly what you want to say and how to say it
Clarity on what you are actually committing to and why it matters
Here is what you walk away with.
A 100% clear path to writing vows that sound like you and mean something real
The Three Dimensional Vows framework, the exact process Eric and Cheri use with every couple
A story-mining method so specific moments become the beating heart of your vows
Confidence that you know exactly what you want to say and how to say it
Clarity on what you are actually committing to and why it matters
Your hosts
Eric & Pippa Plantenberg
We started Those Lucky Bastards because we believe the couples who slow down, get intentional, and actually think about what they are committing to build a marriage that is fundamentally different.
Stronger. Deeper. More honest. More alive.
We have spent years studying what actually makes marriages work. The research is clear. The best marriages today are better than any in human history. But most are worse than they have ever been. The difference is not luck, and believe it our not, the difference is not how much the couple loves each other. It is intention.
That is why we built this workshop. Not just to help you write the perfect vows, but to help you start your marriage the way the best ones start.
The fact that you are here tells us everything we need to know about how committed you are to your partner and your marriage. We cannot wait to see you on the workshop!
Couples are already writing vows they cannot wait to say
Working with Eric and Pippa gave us a total paradigm shift. For the first time in my life, I truly understood the hidden power behind our commitment. It completely reframed how I see us supporting each other.”
“Eric and Pippa create such a safe and welcoming space. They respect us as individuals and as a couple, making it easy to show up honestly without pressure.”
“Being on retreat with Eric and Pippa was transformational. Their embodied, balanced leadership helped us understand ourselves—and each other—through the lens of the divine masculine and feminine. We left with deeper compassion, clearer perspective, and a stronger connection than we imagined possible.”
Frequently Asked Questions
What is this workshop?
This is a live 90-minute virtual event hosted on Zoom where Eric and Cheri Plantenberg walk you through their Three Dimensional Vows framework, the exact process they use to help engaged couples write vows that are specific, meaningful, and genuinely theirs.
It is designed to give you a clear path to writing vows that sound like you, that you cannot wait to say, and that serve as the foundation of your marriage. No staring at a blank page, no copying templates from the internet, no settling for something that does not feel right.
How is this different from just Googling vow examples?
Google & AI gives you other people's words. This gives you yours.
Vow examples from the internet are written for nobody in particular, which means they sound like nobody in particular. They are generic by design. You can tell when someone read ten examples and stitched them together, and so can everyone in the room.
Three Dimensional Vows works differently. Instead of giving you words to copy, Eric and Cheri walk you through a process that finds the specific moments, memories, and promises that already exist in your relationship and helps you turn them into vows that could only have been written by you.
Do we both need to buy tickets?
Nope! One ticket will cover both you and your partner. If possible, we recommend watching the workshop together to get the most out of this experience.
What is the VIP upgrade?
The VIP upgrade gives you access to an exclusive post-workshop session with Eric and Cheri that is separate from the main event.
After the main workshop ends, VIP attendees stay on with Eric and Cheri in a smaller, more intimate setting. More direct access, more personal attention, and more time to get your specific questions answered.
If you want more direct access to Eric and Cheri and a more personal experience beyond the main workshop, the VIP upgrade is for you.
You can add it at checkout for $27.
Will there be a replay if I cannot attend live?
We do not offer a replay for our live workshops.
We have found that when couples know they can watch later, they put it off. And then life happens, the wedding gets closer, and the vows never get the attention they deserve.
This work is too important to put off. Your wedding day is coming whether you feel ready or not, and the couples who show up live are the ones who leave with real transformation and clarity.
If for any reason you cannot make the live session, email us at [email protected] and we will get you registered for one of our upcoming events.
Is there a guarantee?
Yes. After you attend the workshop you will have a crystal clear path to writing vows that sound like you, that you cannot wait to say, and that mean something long after the wedding day.
If for any reason you are not happy with the workshop, email us at [email protected] within 30 days and we will refund every dollar. No forms, no friction.
Your vows are waiting.
Let's go write them.
Sunday September 13th · 4:00pm EST · Live on Zoom · Limited spots
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